A year already

Has it been that long since I blogged.Aaarghh, I have promised myself that I will not neglect the blog that much going fwd. I will definitely be posting some tid bits from the year gobe by. Hopefully that will bridge some gap.

So be on the look out for some new posts from me shortly..

New member of the family.

Our family just grew :) and no, not in the old fashioned way...we have a new pet fish (this is number 5 by the way).

Sean has christened him 'Hunter Joseph'. You know we want to give him the respect he deserves and not just call him fishie or just the fish..

here he is. Can you spot him relaxing in his paradise?

A Frog or Prince Charming under a spell?

On one of my visits to Target last week, I found this in the dollar bins. I thought it would be a good addition to the deck with one of the potted plants for spring/summer. I put it by the kitchen sink for now.


I wonder when my someone will break my spell?

Later that night I decided to play a prank on the kids :) Here's what happened after dinner,

Me: Sean and Rhea, did you see Mr. Frog?'

Sean: Yeah Mom! Where did you buy it from?

Ignoring the part about buying it and tryin to keep a straight face

Me: This is not a frog..its a Prince under a spell. If you kiss the frog, it will turn into a Prince!!!

Hearing the Prince part, Rhea's ears perked up and I could sense that she was uncomfortable.

Rhea: But why Mom? Do you want a Prince in our house?

Me: I'm not so sure Rhea. If he becomes a Prince then we have to make sure he has everything he needs here, like his guards and his horses..

Now Rhea was really worried.

Rhea:Mom, I don't want a Prince in our house.

Me: Ok, then lets not kiss the frog. Don't worry about it.

I did't want her to be totally freaked out.

Sean: Rhea, Mom is just joking. It will not turn into a Prince. See I'll show you.

And Rhea shrieked like a catastophe was about to happen.

Rhea: Nooo Seannn don't kissss it.

Sean: Mom, give him to me, its not going to turn into a Prince.

Me: I'm warning you Sean, don't be so sure.

Sean takes it from my hand and gives it a kiss. Nothing happens.

Sean: See Rhea. Nothing happened!!! and he have a few more kisses to the frog.

I was still not ready for the fun to be over.

Me: Sean, don't be so sure. We don't know what that magic number is that will turn him into a Prince. It could be 2 or 3 or 10 kisses. We don't know. So be careful.

At that point he started to show a slight level of worry and decided to stop kissing.

And I heaved a sigh of relief that I could leave the mystery unsolved for some more time. But both of them have not brought it up in any conversations since then so maybe they just dont want to think about it.

Necklace day!

Rhea is so hilarious...she has something up her sleeves all the time and cracks us all up. Yesterday at dinner time she goes, 'Mom, today was necklace day!'. I'm trying to think if I missed some communication regarding this from her class. I did notice that she was wearing her 'titanic style' humongous pearl with the big heart rock necklace today. So I said, Hmm..really? And she goes 'Only I wore a necklace today!!' with a cheeky look and giggles away. Yeah, she totally just made that up!! Wonder what she has up her sleeve next :) here's a video that I took yesterday of her..I asked her to imitate my facial expressions and the resuts are so comically hysterical :) So enjoy!

A fun evening with my 4 year old..

Rhea and I were watching some TV together today. We were watching some ice skating. She seemed quite curious about it as we started watching.

Rhea: Mommy can you hold my hand s and teach me to do dat.
Me: You want to learn ice skating?
Rhea: Yeah
Me: sure, we can do that..
Then Sara Hughes came in and she started to do her routine. And out of nowhere as she was twirling,
Rhea: I just saw her underwear (giggle…giggle).
Me: Why are you happy about that?
Rhea: I think its funny (giggle…giggle)
When the commercial’s started…
Rhea: Mommy , daddy doesn’t have any money
Me: Why do you say that?
Rhea: Daddy said that he bought the XBOX and now there’s no money
Me: Trying to not laugh out loud…Don’t worry Rhea, I’ll give money to Daddy
Rhea: Looking at me suspiciously….how do you get money
Me: I’ll work extra hard and get money
Rhea: Her eyes light up and she says – SO you give money to daddy and you both then have money. Yes?
Me: Yes!!
Shw seemed relieved and got drawn into the skating again. And then the French skater wore a skimpy dress. She watched her for a few minutes, commented on her moves on ice and then dropped da bomb!
Rhea: I don’t like that outfit. I don’t know why she choose to wear that. Mommy do you like that?
Me: No
She seemed happy that we shared the same interest in fashion :)

Happy Birthday Aji!!!

Today was Aji's birthday!!!




Fall Inspired birthday cake - Pumpkins, Fall leaves, flowers, scare crow et al!

Nov Challenge

Aji and I are gearing up for a workout challenge for November. Since we are not doing well individually we tought why not make it a chanllege...

So goals for the upcomig month are:

1. Minimum of 3 workouts per wekk
2. Minimum mileage: 9 miles

Penalty - Mileage gets carried fwd to next week.

This should be interesting.....very very interesting...

Let the games BEGIN!!!

Dinner menu

Wow! 10 days since my last post. Will try to not waste so many days in between.

I had mentioned that since going part time, I have more time on my hands to plan and execute a weekly menu. I thouht that it'll be a good idea to share it here at the end of the week.

Week of Oct 10

Sunday - Crab dumplings, Left overs from last week
Monday - Pita, Hummus, Grilled Bihari chicken tikka, Tzatziki, Grilled Corn
Tuesday - Roti, Cutlet, Salad, Raita, Bindi masala
Wednesday - Chinese Noodles,Chicken Satay with peanut sauce.
Thursday - Roti, Palak Paneer, Cutlet, Bindi Masala
Friday - Tilapia with capers and tomatoes, couscous salad
Saturday - Eating out

Fall is here...

And not for a short visit...its here to stay...the leaves are changing color, the air is crisp, its getting dark sooner and the temps are dropping...its already in the 50's and 60's. I'm so not ready for this BWAHH!! Its going to take a few days to get used to this chill in the air. I also need to dig out all of the extra layers to shield from head to toe. This also means i have to triple my will power to wake up and jump out the bed when i hear the distant noise of my alarm at 4:50am. I want spring now..well, i guess that means winter should be here first. On second thoughts, I'm not reday for winter yet. On that note, I'll step off my soapbox and try to enjoy the fun things in fall.

Laidback Saturday

Today was one of those days when we didnt have too much going on. Gloria came in the morning and the house is now spic and span. Aji and the kids went for Sean's tennis class. I had a hair appt. I had got sandlewood incense for my hairdresser Maggie and she was thrilled when i gave it to her. She in turn gave me two of her hand made earrings. They are beautiful!!

I will probably get her to make a few more when I see something I like. I also got a free keratene treatment and free shampoo and conditioner. She really is a sweetheart. After my hair appt I met Aji and the kids at Pei Wei for dinner. Rhea was looking fwd to ice cream from Maggie Moos before dinner and even though it got a bit chilly when we were done with dinner we still went for desert.

Want to take a guess at the favor choice - you'll never get it...TWIZZLER. Rhea got marshmallows mixed in and Sean had Marshmallows and sprinkles...super sweet..

Cute and Comfy

My new shoes that is. Got them in the mail yesterday.


It was pouring rain the last 2 days and I was hoping we get a break so I can introduce my new finds to the world. And the skies cleared this morning and I'm wearing them today. Rhea will notice this first when i go to pick her, she has the eyes of an eagle when it comes to anything new I wear. I'm looking forward to her reaction.

To do or not to do...

My dilemma is regarding the Stoneridge 5k on October 16th. Its a Saturday and its in our neighboring community and all the proceeds go to the school that has the most number of participants representing them. Last year Sean's school took the money and I felt bad that I didn't participate. So this year I'm seriously considering doing it. It may also be the one thing that'll get me on my treadmill more often. I know I can swing a 5K with minimal training now - thanks to the last 10 years of yo-yo running but I dont want to be one of the very last ones in the field considering I have a lot of colleagues that may show up since they all live in the said community.

One of the other reasons why I'm pondering if this is a good idea is because I was planning to have a get together at our house that same evening. I havent sent out the invite so dont know for sure if it'll work out for everyone but if it does what do I do? Do I want to do both or not???

Decisions...decisions..

New outfit

Over the weekend Aji was on a getaway with the guys in Miami. I got Rhea a top to go with the skirt that Mummy got for her this time. Here she is right before we left for church..

Chocolate fix.

Yesterday I was channel surfing and came across teh most delectable chocolate pudding recipe. And something unusal happened, for once I had all of the ingredients in the pantry.So even though I had initially planned to make it over the weekend I just couldnt wait until then esp. considering I had everything I needed on hand. Best part it wasn't time consuming at all.

It's been awhile since I made any dessert so I knew the kids would enjoy it as well even if it meant waiting until today for them to eat. So after I got dinner on the table and before the second round of homework, i quickly got the desert all done and put it in the refrigerator to set. It smelled divine and I couldn't wait to get a taste.

By the time Aji got home and had his dinner it was close to 10pm. That was enough time for the pudding to set and so he and I shared one! It was really good!!

Here it is - Delectable home made chocolate pudding.



The kids had it as a snack after school today!

Work and Life balance

I struggled with this a lot last year. I was managing two very demanding projects. They were both very crucial in terms of client satisfaction and complexity. That meant very long work hours for me. I would put long hours at work, barely make it on time to pick up the kids, try to get through Sean’s homework, their dinner and put them to bed only to again login back from home. It was a very challenging and stressful year. Long hours for me at work also meant that the kids were also forced to have a long day at school. That resulted in huge Mommy guilt every single day in addition to all of that work stress. I’m thankful for Aji for all the support and oh so grateful that all of us lived through it without damage. Both my projects were extremely successful and received client accolades.Thank God for that!

One of the most important things I realized last year was that I never ever wanted to short change my time with the kids and Aji. I wanted to give them my 110%. After a lot of thinking, pondering and losing my mind, both Aji and I decided that it was in the best interest of all of us that I go part time. So I spoke with my management and they were so very receptive right from the first time I brought this up. So starting September I’m now doing 32 hours per week. I do 8:00-2:00pm Monday through Friday with an additional hour two days a week to round the total to 32. I have to admit this has been one of the best decisions I have made in my life. There are days/times I feel bad about my reduced responsibilities. Lame as it seems, there are times that I miss those minute to minute and second to second curve balls that came my way when I had an overflowing plate full of work and not enough time. But then, I realize that I’m so much relaxed and nicer to be around now. Another big plus - Sean can take the bus from school now rather than having to go to after school care. This means he and I can spend some time and get the bulk of his homework done while he has more energy and before other distractions namely his little sister gets home. I pick her earlier than previous years as well and it is so much better.

The other good thing that came out of this is that I have more time and energy to plan for a weekly menu so I don’t serve the same 2 or 3 items the whole week for dinner. I also wanted to make sure the kids are eating less processed foods (I've lost count of the bags of chicken nuggets and fish fingers we have bought from Costco) and fewer trips to Mc Donald’s. I have started planning my weekly menu in advance so I can stick to my grocery list and not be distracted with the 10 other items that are calling my name at the store. This has made such a huge difference. Previously I would stray from my list so very easily because I'd be planning my dinner as I did the grocery. Which meant I'd pick up things that I really did not need rightaway and just end up eating space in the pantry. Which reminds me - Time to clean out the pantry. There are quite a few items that need to be purged or be used soon.

I’m also trying to make meal time more fun and educative – using food as a passport to travel around the world. So if we had Chinese for dinner, we do 3 fun facts about China like – capitol city, currency, language. This means I have to keep trying cuisines from different parts of the world which is fine because I enjoy cooking. I hope that by doing this Sean and Rhea start enjoying cusines from around the world and also get introduced to the diverse cultures.

The only thing left to do now- Jump back on that workout wagon. I can’t use the ‘I don’t have time’ excuse anymore.

Exam Week

This week is test central for Sean. He has a Math test today, Social Studies tomorrow and spelling on Friday. Busy week indeed. I'm still getting used to the busier pace of second grade. First grade seems like a cake walk now. Yeah I know, I didnt feel like that last year going through it. Anyways, its time to get a little bit more serious. Sean did very well on his first spelling. Drum rolls please -
He got an 'E' (Exceeds) for getting all correct.

For the second test he got one word wrong. He had done it all correctly at the home test so I was surprised and felt really bad for him. The word that stumped him - CITIZENSHIP. Just means that we'll have to work a little bit harder this week.

To add to the extra home work and test schedule that Sean has this year...madam Rhea has homework too!! She is super excited about it though - no kidding.I was beginning to wonder if she really was my kid...loving homework and all...until I cracked the secret reason behind this love. She has seen Sean doing homework forever and always felt that it was one of the defining attributes of being a 'BIG KID'. So now her time has come and she is just so excited about it...poor lil darling. She has no idea what's in store. Anyways, the good news (for me) is that she doesn't have homework everyday - just Tuesdays and Thursdays. We'll see how things go. So far she seems to be enjoying it and even wanted to do extras over the weekend when Sean was doing his Kumon!

Health and Fitness

I've been shying away from my workouts more often than I'd like to admit but that has been the reality. So now after feeling miserable about the extra jiggles I'm back again on the quest to embracing the healthy and active life style...i'm trying to clean up my diet and slowly build my endurance. The weather is just adding to the misery...I'm waiting for spring to go back to my boot camp classes but until then the plan is to build up my mileage on the dreadmill. I'm hoping to get upto 10 miles this spring. Last sunday I did 5.2 miles. I was thrilled because I really didnt think I would last that long. Not at the pace I'd have liked but what i realised in the last week is that I can choose to either huff and puff at my previously 'comfortable' pace and not last very long or take a step back slow down a bit and work on building back my endurance. As much as I hate that, it is exactly what I did.Yesterday I did 4.15 miles - added a bit of interval training so my ego wasn't bruised all that much. I'm hoping to increase my mileage every week..which reminds me, time to get a new pair of shoes..might make a stop at the running store this weekend.

My secret childhood wish ..

I love this picture. One big reason - Growing up I always envied my friends with big brothers. I always secretly wished for one and thought that if I had an older brother in addition to big Sis and little bro, it wd have been perfect. Sean and Rhea are at each other's throat a lot but can't deny how close they already are..they are each other's best buddy..and are always looking out for each other..

Here's wishing and praying that it always stays that way!

Aal izz well !

So the ‘it’ thing now is the movie 3 idiots. We saw it the day after New Year’s. It was the first time we were going for a Hindi movie as a family. The bonus was that it was a kid friendly movie as well. Sean and Rhea thoroughly enjoyed the trip to the theatre. With the big bucket of pop corn, their favorite candy and the sugary sodas…what’s not to love…the movie was just the cherry on the sugar loaded extravaganza that lasted a whole 3 hours :)Both of them enjoyed the songs and sat through the entire show with no complaints. They really didn’t have any time to complain since they were downing the ‘goods’ at record time which surprisingly Mom and Dad were surprisingly getting them (that’s a first) They were living the dream !!
So fast forward to this weekend and I got the CD and the kids have been listening to the tracks while ‘trapped’ or ‘securely belted’ as the case maybe in the mobile and forcefully shuttled around town for various errands. Yesterday Sean and Dad got back from tennis and we had to leave for church soon so I prodded him to the bathroom so he can take a quick shower. I love our little humbug of a boy..he has an amazing sense of humor and comic timing…what do we hearafter the showers were turned on…he’s singing out loud ‘All iz well…’ complete with the dance moves and everything grinning ear to ear…so that became the mantra of the night….if there was any crabbiness….we would say ‘All iz well!’ and there was an immediate smile on the face. After getting back from church.. Rhea was being especially difficult (what do you expect…she missed her afternoon nap). She was getting upset about something and calling out for us. We send the ‘Happy Messenger’ from downstairs to cheer her. Sean went to her and said ‘Rhea, All is well!!!’ she started laughing…its amazing how something so small really lifted everyone’s spirits…

So that’s the Joseph family motto going fwd….so sing it with me…AAL IZZ WELL!!!

You don't like me?

Yesterday morning, while the boys went for tennis,the girls hung out at home…well, mom was cooking and daughter was watching ‘Sleeping Beauty’. I took a few minutes break from the kitchen and I sat down with Rhea. The morning sun was on my face and I moved from the couch to the love seat. Rhea was so engrossed in her movie I didn’t think she even noticed me moving to the other side. A few seconds later, she looked at me and said ‘You don’t like me?’ My heart just about stopped….i felt so horrible…she thought that I moved to the other side because I didn’t want to sit with her. I’m sure that’s what happens in class everyday. I gave her the biggest hug ever and told her that I loved her so so much! And that I moved because the sun was on my face. She was happy to hear that. Later on in the day when I came back for yet another one of my ‘quick breaks’ I again sat on the other side and she looked at me with a big smile and pointed to sun on the couch next to her and said ‘Mommy, the sun is here’.

Aaww my baby! She is such a smartie and growing up so fast!!